This week’s training is a little different than anything I’ve prescribed in the past. Instead of a daily practice, I want you to spend as much time as necessary over the next seven days identifying your single most unhelpful mental pattern. Use any combination of meditation, journaling, etc., to figure out what harmful or destructive phrase you repeat in your head. Note that it might be a type of statement instead of a fixed set of words.
For example, I tend to assume the worst outcome of almost any scenario (catastrophizing). Because of this, I’ve taught my subconscious over the years that danger abounds, and it should always be on high alert. This has led to numerous chronic physical symptoms resulting from a dysregulated nervous system.
But this is not the way I am. It’s the way I’ve become through habitual action. If I want to change, I need an opposing mental mantra to utilize whenever I succumb to my old ways. I currently use “everything is OK.” It’s part of the script in Ben Ahren’s re-origin neural retraining, and I now “say” it to myself hundreds of times daily. That may seem silly, but it works. The ultimate goal is to make this my new instinctual response. I’m not there yet, but I’m making progress.
I want you to do the same thing. Craft an opposing mental expression to utilize whenever you internally narrate whatever useless crap you tell yourself. Remember that habits are the result of repetitive input. Take some time this week to identify your worst mental self-programming and start coding something better.
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Mind Fitness - Week of 08/21/23
It feels good to recognize we do have some control over how we respond to stress of many kinds. I like the idea of a mental mantra. Thanks!